Prostate

Prostate Pleasures

Orgasms and ejaculation
The first thing to note is that orgasm and ejaculation are two separate occurrences, it’s quite possible to have one without the other. However we are so used to them happening together that most men don’t realise this fact.

The problem with a traditional ejaculation orgasm is the come down afterwards where we feel spent and then all arousal is gone.

Imagine an orgasm where you feel even more elated, aroused and eager for the next one, well read on!

The Prostate
The prostate is a small gland about the size of a walnut located between your bowel wall and bladder, responsible for producing seminal fluid.

Being so close the the bowel wall and between about 7-10cm inside your rectum it’s easy to stimulate either with a toy or your finger.

Lie on your back and insert a lubed finger into you anus facing upwards and with gentle rubbing on your bowel wall you should be able to locate the gland.

Remember to be gentle with so you don’t end up bruising the prostate.

Prostate Massagers
Massaging with the finger although effective can be awkward and get tiring after a while, so why not invest in a dedicated prostate massager designed to hit that sweet male G spot (or P spot) perfectly.

Insert with the rippled more bulbous side facing your penis, you can then simply use your anal (pelvic floor) muscles to gently move the massager slightly in and out, or just leave in place lie back and relax and let the gradual sensations build.

There are now many prostate massage devices available, but from experience not all are the correct angle or size to hit that sweet spot perfectly, my best results have come from the Aneors range, especially the Helix series, although a bit more expensive they I’ve found the design to be perfect, allowing for the best chance of success, especially for beginners.

Remember bigger isn’t always better, the smaller size of the helix allows more movement inside you to tickle the prostate.

The Super Orgasm!
Plenty of fun can be had by incorporating prostate massage into your regular sex sessions for more intense orgasms and ejaculation whether you are top or bottom, however to achieve the holy grail of the ‘Super O’ which is an incredible whole body orgasm capable of immersing you into a heightened state of orgasmic ecstasy you’ve never felt before, we need to complete forget about penis stimulation and ejaculation as the ‘Super O’ does not involve this at all, in fact for best results forget about your penis altogether, imagine you don’t have one!

Think of the ‘Super O’ as being much more akin to a female orgasm, more intense, longer lasting and no refractory period, enabling you to have multiple orgasms!

Technique
So you have your prostate massager, let’s find out how to achieve this amazing orgasm!

Firstly find a time where you can relax completely and won’t be disturbed, turn off your phone, dim the lights and lets get started!

It helps to be in a medium state of horniness, too much and you may just be tempted to finish by jacking off. Give yourself plenty of time, at least an hour preferably more.

Get comfortable on your bed and insert the lubed prostate massager, then it really is just a case of lying back and relaxing, I find laying back with my knees up the best position but have also had good results laying on my side.

You can get results by doing nothing at all, lying back and letting your body take over, after a while you may find the massager moving in and out by its own accord, however to get things started use some gentle anal contractions to gently move the massager in and out.
Don’t be in a rush, I find at first it takes around 20 minutes of relaxation with a few contractions from time to time before I really begin to feel anything.

Whatever you feel just completely let go and allow the sensations to wash through your body, it may make your whole body writhe and shake, I call these ‘Mini Os’ or waves of pleasure. What ever you feel the important thing is to just relax, and go along for the ride.

If you are very lucky these sensations may build to a ‘Super O’, it will feel just like a ejaculatory orgasm only much more intense, longer lasting and enveloping your whole being!
You wont cum during this orgasm, meaning the feeling of being on a sexual high will still be with you allowing you to go onto to have multiple whole body enveloping super orgasms!

If you are not sure if you’ve achieved the ‘Super O’ then you haven’t as there will be no doubt in your mind when you do!

Try, try again!

Don’t be down hearted or put off if you achieve nothing on your first, or first several sessions, it can take a while and the Super O can be particularly elusive, but I assure you the outcome will be well worth your patience!

My three key to success are; relaxation, Ignore your penis and don’t force results.